you ever thought that maybe the reason girls say they’re fine when they’re not, or they’re not mad when they are, is because the second they show any semblance of emotion they’re written off as hysterical bitches that are probably on their period?
THE FUCKING DA VINCI CODE HAS BEEN CRACKED
Reblogging again, because this will never be irrelevant.
It really bothers me that post like this spread like wild fire on tumblr. You do realize that you’re essentially telling girls that they can rarely, if ever, tell any guy there problems because it’s apparently a near guarantee that they’ll make fun of them for it. You are making girls think that they won’t be able to confide in a friend, a person who they’ve grown to trust and love, simply because you assume they must think a certain way. That’s a b.s. thing to tell people.
I have a strong feeling that a lot of the people who are liking/reblogging this post have never dealt with this problem. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying this never happens, I’ve seen douchebags say it, but I’ve also seen plenty of people show genuine concern for a girl who’s sad or mad and offer their help. Guys who actually do care are not a rare thing in the slightest. Yes, there sadly is a possibility that some jerk may write you sadness off, but most people out there will not do that. Stop telling girls they need to be scared of the world. You can’t live your life doing nothing because you’re scared taking action will cause bad things will happen. All you’re doing is spreading apathy.
(side note: I realize that the original post didn’t necessarily say it was talking about guys writing off girl’s problems, but either way, my message stands)
What being trans isn’t:
- an identity
- an umbrella
- a spectrum
- a privileged position
- a feeling
What being trans is:
- a debilitating medical condition
"Men need feminism because when a young boy was raped they helped him and men only told him to 'man up'" *looks to the post about the mom raping her son with a bunch of apologist feminist comments*
There are feminists and then there are the feminists.
-The Non-Binary One
Dude the gamecube sucked