I’m prepared to lose followers for this:

I think genitals are UGLY. There is nothing sexy or attractive about a penis or vagina. Now I admit, I posted and reblogged sometimes pics of girls partially or fully nude, I never post anything hardcore that emphasizes stuff like a girl spreading legs and vagina open. To me, that’s not show casing the beauty of the human body, it’s just a pointing out an odd part of the body.

While I’m at it, I might as well add this. I don’t like porn. Don’t give me that “everybody like porn” line, that’s just silly. Sex, in my opinion, should be something intimate and private, not something done for other people’s entertainment. Once again, just my opinion.

A lot of you may disagree with and say that showing genitals is no different than showing boobs and butts. Well I just feel differently about it. I’m in NO WAY trying to criticize anyone that enjoys watching and posting that kind of stuff. Do what makes you happy, I just don’t understand it.

You don’t have to look like anybody else for any reason. There no such thing and the “perfect body” or “perfect face” or whatever. There will be many people who will pick out flaws in you, no matter what you look like. Whether you see it or not, what makes you beautiful is not having a certain look, it’s realizing and embracing everything you are. The world needs uniqueness, so why take that away by trying to be someone else ? 

I don’t want any girl here on tumblr to be under the impression that I’m ever trying to “hit” on them. I don’t think I’m good looking,I’m awkward, I never had a girlfriend and I never even been kissed on the lips. When I talk to you, it’s only because I want to be friends. I like getting to know new people. You are all too beautiful for a guy like me to ever have a chance with.

(I posted this already, but I felt it was worth reposting) I’m 20 years old and I never had a girlfriend… and I’m completely cool with that! You don’t need a boyfriend/girlfriend to make you happy or feel loved. You also don’t to act like you need one in your life or that your that is incomplete without one. Find good friends. Don’t tell that there aren’t any. Just go put put there, remove that fear that you can’t be accepted, and you’ll find them. Maybe a lot of them, maybe a few of them, but you will find good people who will love you for who you are. Love those friends, accept their qualities and accept their flaws. Nobody is perfect, and appreciate a person for who they are, not what you want them to be.

I can’t stand her stupid weight watchers commercial playing every 10 minutes. I hate weight loss commercials to begin with, but her’s are especially annoying. It’s not simply the fact that she used to be a big girl and lost weight that bothers me. It’s the fact that she use to claim that she would not conform to the Hollywood standard of beauty claimed she believed that she was beautiful.

But eventually she thrown all of that out of the window and now she can’t get enough out of telling people how important weight loss is. She’s proudly telling the world that she has abandoned her old beliefs and is now a part of an industry that thrives on making people feel like they’re not good enough and profiting of their insecurity. The weight loss industry doesn’t truly care about people’s health. They just care about finding new ways to make us all feel like crap so that we would buy their products and feed their greed. I change the channel every time those weight loss commercials come on.

What annoys about a lot of celebrities who lose weight is how they flaunt the fact that they lost weight. Take the singer Jordin Sparks, for example. She too was on the bigger side and she would tell people that she was beautiful and believes that you don’t have to be skinny to be beautiful. What does she do then? Loses the weight and posts a picture of her new body in a bikini for the word to see. Perhaps I shouldn’t be blaming this entirely on the before-mentioned celebrities. Hollywood’s simple minded push to make the world believe that skinny is the only way to be beautiful and happy was probably a lot of pressure for these girls to bear.

Still, it’s a huge shame that they let themselves be influenced so heavily by society’s pressure to be as skinny as possible that they have abandoned the idea that people of every size can be beautiful and healthy. Jordin Sparks keeps flaunting her to make other’s see how much smaller her body is now and Jennifer Hudson keeps trying to lose as much weight as she can won’t shut up about it. Hollywood is in serious need of more people like Raven Symone. She’s skinnier now than she used to be, but she doesn’t brag about, doesn’t endorse any weight loss B.S., and most amazingly, she admits the only reason she lost the weight was because of Society’s pressure to be skinny. She may have lost her weight, but I believe she is still a strong supporter of loving your body and beauty coming in every size. Much respect to her.

I don’t care how many times you say you’re ugly, I’ll disagree. I don’t care how many times you say you’re a horrible person, I’ll say you’re wrong. I don’t if you tell me “I’m not beautiful” when I tell you that you are, I’ll still continue saying your beautiful. I don’t how much I well I know you, because I know that nobody deserves to hae themselves. Nobody deserves to be in pain. Nobody deserves to feel like they’re not good enough. People don’t tell you these things just to give you half hearted reasons to stop hating yourself, they tell you this because they honestly believe that. They tell you this to tell you know no matter what terrible think you’re thinking about, those thoughts are wrong. You may not believe the best about yourself, but others do and will not stand to tell you give up on yourself. 

How can any blog/website enforce the idea that you must put yourself through so much pain and unhappiness. A person who’s going through such pain should never want others feel such a way. I have depression,I hate myself a lot, I’ve self injured, I’ve contemplated suicide many times, and I’ve thought up many more terrible things that a depressed person can think of, but even with all of that, I know my depression is a horrible mental problem that I know I have fight against because it’s trying to force me to believe the worse case scenario, it’s trying to make me believe things about myself that are untrue.

I know it’s a horrible disease that nobody should ever have to experience. I would never want anybody to feel the pain and sadness I’ve felt. They don’t deserve to be that miserable. To the people who start these blogs and anyone who follows them, I just want to make it clear that I don’t dislike or have any personal problem with any of you. As a person with depression, I know what it’s like to believe the worst about yourself and to think things will never get better, but take from a person who’s been there and is still going through it, it does get better. Just keep pushing on no mater how terrible things make seem and you’ll eventually see the real beauty of this world. I can’t guarantee it will happen right away, but I can guarantee that it will happen.

The world is not that evil, simple minded place too many idiots want you to believe.  It doesn’t matter if the reason these blogs exist or the reason you follow them is because you feel they’re necessary or maybe you feel that it’s a way to express your anger or depression, that kind of stuff is just not good for the mind. You want to find something that can lighten the weight of depression, eve just for a little, find something that makes you happy. This is the internet, there is always something out there can make you happy (may I suggest damnyouautocorrect.com? Super funny site where I go whenever I’m feeling extremely depressed. Always makes me feel a bit better).

Of course you’re going to have to figure out what makes you that happy? It might be a website or it may be some kind of activity outside of the computer, they are there. The world is not a dark and hopeless place, it is filled good people who will love you and help you no matter what. Just muster a small bit, not even a lot, of courage and hope to find them. You’d be surprised to find how many of them are out there.